Flirting, being friends or very good friends and going out on a special date with a girl; all are very different situations from proposing a girl.
Men who are going to propose an Indian girl should do this with utmost care. It hurts very much to get denial after proposing a girl. When it comes to proposing an Indian girl, men need to take several factors in to account. Here is a short guide to help you know the best way to propose an Indian girl.
Duration of your relationship
If you are friends with an Indian girl for just 1 or 2 weeks, do not propose her. Give time to your relationship so that it can grow. When a man, who knows a girl for a very short period of time; proposes her; the girl gets to know that the person is just fooling around. However, if you know a girl very well for many months then proposing seems acceptable.
The quality of your relationship
If you know a girl for a year but have spent only a few lonely moments with her then you should not propose her. Before proposing a girl think yourself that how it will appear to propose a girl whom you just don’t know very well. On the other hand, if you share a very enjoyable relationship with a girl then it will not appear abnormal to propose on your part. You need to understand that there should be strong reasons for your proposal. Only then the girl would trust you. It is very difficult for an Indian girl to understand that a man who does not know her well really has honest feeling for her.
Timing
Choose a day when you are on a date with your girl. Observe the mood of the girl whom you are going to propose. If the girl is in a bad mood then don’t propose her. You will suffer without any reason just because of wrong timing. Also, keep on giving hints about your proposal before really proposing a girl. This helps in creating a good platform before you really propose her.
The style for proposing an Indian girl
This is the most important part of proposing an Indian girl. Men should understand that there is no rigid style of proposing a girl. Every girl wishes to get proposed in a unique manner. Keep this in mind and propose her in your own unique style. Be creative and avoid copying someone else. Propose her in such manner that she feels like a princess or the most beautiful woman in the whole universe. Assure her that you will always take care of her and do anything for her happiness. Avoid proposing in a direct manner. It sounds boring and Indian girls would not like it. If they ask for some time to give response then give it to her (Also, you don’t have another option). Remember that patience always pays.
Being Prepared—Doing Your Homework could be the Difference-Maker So, you are sure about getting your timing right and you have decided upon the style of proposing to your Indian girlfriend. However, an important question remains to be asked—have you don’t your homework?
The style for proposing an Indian girl
This is the most important part of proposing an Indian girl.
Men should understand that there is no rigid style of proposing a girl. Every
girl wishes to get proposed in a unique manner. Keep this in mind and propose
her in your own unique style. Be creative and avoid copying someone else.
Propose her in such manner that she feels like a princess or the most beautiful
woman in the whole universe. Assure her that you will always take care of her
and do anything for her happiness. Avoid proposing in a direct manner. It
sounds boring and Indian girls would not like it. If they ask for some time to
give response then give it to her (Also, you don’t have another option).
Remember that patience always pays.
Being Prepared—Doing Your Homework could be the
Difference-Maker So, you are sure about getting your timing right and you have
decided upon the style of proposing to your Indian
girlfriend. However, an important question remains to be asked—have
you don’t your homework?
Yes, this might sound a bit strange, but when proposing to a
lady, it is vital that you come across as somebody who is seriously interested
in her. This means having observed her closely and taking the initiative to
find out more about her. If she is your colleague at the office, digging
information about her likes and dislikes isn't that difficult. If she is within
your extended circle of friends, the task becomes even easier. When you propose
to her, it should seem that you know about her preferences and her personality
type.
Is she the upfront type who has only dated bold, macho guys
in the past? If yes, your style of proposing would be better-off being quick and blunt
about it. If she is the sporty types, it would be better if you propose going
out on a small adventure trip as a part of the proposal or initiate the
conversation with how you have always wanted to try rock climbing. This
combination of asking her out and mentioning something that she really likes
will make her think that yes, you do understand her and there is something
common to build upon.
If she is the shy type, ensure that it doesn’t seem like you
are hitting upon her. Before you actually propose, do some homework. Identify
her closest friends. Send her some subtle reminders and teasers about the fact
that you really like her. In this manner, you would have taken-out the sting of
shock or awe at the time of actually proposing to her. Think of this as
establishing a reasonable base when proposing to an Indian girl.
Your Choice of Words is Critical When Proposing
Even after the best of preparations, if you end-up saying the
wrong things at moment ofproposing to an Indian girl,
you are bound to make things difficult for yourself. Rather than leaving it all
to spontaneity, it is better to being a bit prepared about how are going to put
forth your proposal. The fact is that unless she is a total stranger to you,
you don’t need to explain yourself to her. All you need to do is directly ask
her out without using the words “date”. There is nothing wrong with using this
word but it gives things a rather typical perception.
You are better-off proposing in a manner that is both direct
and a bit subtle. Your lines should include phrases like ‘I have been observing
you for a long time’ or ‘I have a gut feeling that you wouldn’t mind going out
with me’. Don’t bombard her with flowers or gifts before actually saying
something. That just seems like a lame attempt to melt her a bit before hitting her with the proposal.
Being a bit apprehensive, anxious or even stammering a bit is not an issue as
you say it. Don’t try to act too cool or someone you are not. Don’t behave like
some overconfident schmuck who couldn’t care less.